What Makes a Woman Beautiful? 5 Simple Facts
Appearance January 14, 2017 LifeMadeMoreSimple.com 0
As a woman, if you want to be seen as “beautiful” by a particular man, there is a simple way. It has nothing to do with how you look. You need to understand the deeper qualities in a woman, behind the surface, that cause a man to see her as “beautiful”. Then, learn how to develop those deeper qualities in yourself. How? Just act on these 5 simple facts:
1. Being Attractive Isn’t Required for a Woman To Be Beautiful
Being attractive has to do with physical looks. Being beautiful has to do with a perception in someone else’s mind.
As Dr Adam Sheck points out, “…a man creates beauty through his perception of a woman. Yes, I firmly believe that the love and admiration of a man has a role in creating beauty in a woman.”
As Dr Sheck describes it, when you are truly loved by a man for your beautiful internal way of being, you become beautiful in his mind and in his soul, and then in his eyes. And when you witness and feel his love for you and his vision of your beauty, and you fully allow yourself to take it all in, you will be transformed.
Gain a man’s love and admiration, and you will be transformed into a woman who is beautiful in his eyes.
How can a woman gain a man’s love and admiration?
2. Beauty Starts With Inner Character
A man’s love and admiration for a woman is drawn by her inner character.
What did various men say makes a woman beautiful when they were surveyed?
“Love of others, confidence, self respect.”
“Warm, caring, enthusiastic.”
“Depth, intelligence.”
“Natural goodness.”
Develop your own strong personal inner character and you will be a beautiful woman, regardless of your physical appearance. In fact, this applies to any person, man or woman.
How do you build a strong personal inner character?
3. Admirable Actions Build a Beautiful Inner Character
A person of good character can be recognized by their actions that demonstrate certain traits within them. Examples include…
patience
faith
generosity
gratitude
self-control
As your actions develop these qualities within yourself, they will begin to shine through and be seen by others in your life, who will begin to notice your inner beauty in the process.
What actions develop those inner qualities in yourself?
4. Beauty of Inner Character Has to Be Shaped and Molded
Tackle difficult or unpleasant challenges, and you will develop self-discipline.
Help people who are discouraged, and you will become an encourager.
Thank others for things they do, and they will see your heart of gratitude.
Be courteous to people who aren’t courteous in return. They will see and be influenced by your kindheartedness.
Act admirably in your life with others and you will be begin to shape those traits in yourself that make you a beautiful person.
Those things are easy to talk about, but they don’t always come naturally. What is it that motivates someone to continuously pursue the character traits that produce inner beauty?
5. Beauty Starts With Your Values
You will only be successful at shaping good character traits in yourself if you have a foundation of good values in your heart. Only then will actions that make you a beautiful person come naturally. How do you get that foundation?
Fill your mind with admirable things. Study and follow the Bible. Read advice from people who seem to live out these traits you want in your own life. Pray. Love and serve God, and love and serve others before yourself.
Summary:
Take what you learn through all of that and put it into action. Do difficult things to stretch yourself and build discipline. Seek more humility, and find ways to serve others. Be generous with money and hospitable with your home. Encourage others and be a great friend.
Nurture these good values deep within yourself. Act on them and live them out. Your patience, faith, generosity, gratitude and self-control will shine through. Do these things and you will literally transform into someone “beautiful”, regardless of what’s on the outside.
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